No one is perfect and no one has a perfect relationship. We all need to do what we can to do better in our personal lives and in our relationships. Men are far from perfect and there is room for improvement, but so are women. Find out what women shouldn’t do to stay in a happier and more satisfying relationship.
1: Talking about other men:
Men can be as shy as women when they think their women have eyes for others. Think about your reaction if you saw your man staring at or seducing another woman. So, with that in mind, would you really blame your man for getting angry when you do the same? Most guys won’t really care if you find another guy attractive, but talking about that with your significant other probably isn’t a good idea. In this case it is better not to speak.
2: Petty talk about other women:
Strong women support other women, not others. Saying bad things about others is a sign of anxiety and low self-esteem, so try to remember the good things about yourself, even if you feel like you lack something compared to other women. Sometimes it’s okay to admit to your other partner that you feel insecure, but talking badly about other women doesn’t help the situation or boost your self-esteem.
3: I always apologize:
If you did something wrong, of course you should apologize, but don’t say you’re sorry unless it’s really necessary. For example, there is no need to apologize for wearing pajamas all day and not wearing makeup or washing dishes all night. Learn to handle yourself more easily because reducing stress also benefits relationships.
4: Not giving your partner enough time alone:
Every person on this planet needs some time alone to renew and maintain other relationships. Spending time alone with your loved one is not normal or healthy, so you need to make space for your partner.
5: Block friends:
Don’t neglect your friendship. You need friendship as much as you need your partner, so you need to nurture other relationships as well. A strong friendship helps create a good long-term relationship rather than damage it, so try to strike a balance between the two.
6: Message others when you are out with your partner:
Sure, replying to a text or two isn’t a problem, but staring at your phone all the time you spend with your partner will make them feel left out. Spend as much time as possible with your partner. Because if two people don’t work hard, a relationship can’t be established. Look at the old saying, “You should dance with whoever brought you.”
7: Talking about your ex:
Men, like women, are jealous and want to feel that you are the only person they love. You can, of course, point out people you’ve dated in the past, but continuing to talk or compare yourself to your current lover will only lead to controversy and confusion in your relationship.
8: I really don’t listen:
Everyone wants attention and people want to hear it. So, when your partner talks to you, leave the phone and listen. You don’t want your partner to ignore you or your half to listen to you, so give them the same respect that you would.
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